tjtheart asked: Hello Jessica, well, another typical coment of how gorgeous and stunning you're, i just get mesmerized by your face your body and all your art, it's amazing how you have time to answer to your fans, thanks for showing all this you are unbelievable, i hope you keep the great job, oh also i hope you are allright about your break up, a lot of peopple love you, finding someone it's not going to be dificult to you :)
Actually - Finding someone that I am compatible with? Is … pretty… much … impossible. I have been on twelve dates now - And I have to say? I totally dislike the dating game…. They are either too normal or too boring (and that does *not* mean that I am looking for another “kurt” or another “bad boy” type…But I am attracted to people who have good stories - I traveled to Africa, Guatemala, I traveled the US for seven years out of my car - I have a MILLION lovely stories… I need someone that has actually DONE something fun or something worth noting… I find it highly attractive) - Or they like to hunt or they keep staring at my boobs or they are condescending and they order my food for me or they try to kiss me (when I make it 100% clear that I will not kiss on the first date)
Anyways - Dating is aggravating - I *force* myself to go on at *least* two dates a week because I know that it will keep my mind off Kurt…. But holy hell. Dating is a TOTAL circus……. That one guy that cried over dinner when the Lumineers song came on. That other guy that seemed really nice until he mentioned who his roommate was and I was like, “Oh WOW, I know your roommate through friends. He is a crazy drug deal that cheats on his wife all the time. He came to my Christmas party and stole a bunch of stuff out of my house.” - The other guy that talked over me all night and I ended up just zoning out and playing on my cell phone and I don’t think he even noticed. He talked for HOURS *at* me… That guy that went to the movies with me the day before Philly and he kept trying to touch my boobs the entire time. Geeze!
….. I WILL say…. That out of ALL the dates that I have been on? I DID make one really amazing friend (*just* a friend, though) - Perhaps it was worth all the circus acts. He is actually quite brilliant and fun to chat with…. And it seems like he has a great group of friends, just like I do….
After Kurt? Guys with friends? Look really good to me…. I’ve realized that lots of (not all) friend-less people?…. Probably have a reason that they are friend-less…